There is a bit of a feminism alert here so any Neanderthals might be best stopping reading now. Then again, as Rebecca West once said, “I only know that people call me a feminist whenever I express sentiments that differentiate me from a doormat or a prostitute.”
For those who aren’t quite clear, feminism is nothing more than the desire that women are treated like equal human beings, not a desire to denigrate men. How dare we huh?
Just getting that clear.
In the Wolves v Liverpool match there was a female linesperson in what apparently was her second match. She had one ‘call’ to make, an offside decision which she got right and, as a result, Liverpool went one up. Before the replay every woman on twitter, even non-football following relatives of people on twitter, were hoping that she had got it right. This, of course, prompted a few men to completely miss the point and respond with variations of ‘why are people surprised she got it right, she’s a professional, and a few other statements which simply highlighted the fact that where one portion of fans are sexists in the extreme, the remainder could be said to be totally ignorant to that fact no matter how ‘PC’ they try to be.
As @HayleyWright said, the women weren’t celebrating because she got it right, we were celebrating because had she got it wrong there would have been a ‘retarded backlash against women officials.’
And there’s the thing, when a man gets it wrong (which they do often, just see the linesman in the first half of the Arsenal match yesterday if you want a few examples) he is simply branded useless. When one woman gets something wrong, then all women are branded useless and told they have no place in the game.
Now I’m not saying that this is the view of the majority, but it is the view of a significant portion of football followers. Sad but true and no doubt a lot of you will argue that I’m over-reacting to the size of the problem, but I guarantee that you will all be men and that no woman will back up any statement which says there is no sexism in football, or that sexism is ‘under control.’
Cue Andy Gray and Richard Keyes, hardly poster boys for progression, but nonetheless, women could have expected a far better reaction from two of the most well-known pundits in the game.
Not so. Caught off-camera, but still miked up, they let rip with comments which, had they been about race, would have seen them removed from the airwaves a la Ron Atkinson. But they won’t be, and that, in turn, endorses the view that sexism does no harm and is an acceptable part of football.
So what did they say? Well, the conversation went like this:
RK “someone should get down there and explain the offside rule to her”
AG “Can you believe that? A female linesman. Women don’t know the offside rule”
RK “Course they don’t. I can guarantee you there will be a big one today. Kenny (Liverpool manager Kenny Dalglish) will go potty. This isn’t the first time, is it? Didn’t we have one before?”
The conversation then continued.
RK “The game’s gone mad. Did you hear charming Karen Brady this morning complaining about sexism? Do me a favour, love.”
Do I need to point out what the hell is wrong with that entire conversation? For a start, I am female and I understand the offside rule better than any man I know (in real life). I understand the whole first phase, second phase, active etc and can call it better than most I ever watch matches with. I get it. I’ve been going to football for over 30 years, how dare ANYONE tell me I don’t know about football or the laws of the game simply because of my gender.
HOW FUCKING DARE THEY.
It’s as stupid as saying ‘Oh he has blonde hair, how the hell would he know anything about football!’
But I know how the arguments will go, I’ve had to fight against them my whole life. I had one guy I worked with who wouldn’t even talk to me about football because I was female. Then he wouldn’t talk to me because I humiliated him in front of the entire workforce by knowing more than he did. Small penis would be my guess. Is that sexist? Oops.
They didn’t mean it. They were only having a bit of banter. Blah blah blah. Substitute race for gender and would it be a ‘joke’? Would it be tolerated?
Of course it wouldn’t. But excluding 50% of the population? Well that’s just fine and any woman who gets annoyed about it is clearly just highly-strung or on her period.
It’s a fucking disgrace.
As I’ve already mentioned, the MALE linesperson at the Arsenal match in the first half got at least three calls wrong. These weren’t even debatable, they were just wrong. Has there been any mention about how men don’t understand the offside rule? How he let his whole gender down? How he has shown that men shouldn’t be involved in the game? Don’t be so stupid, yet here we are, talking about it when the woman involved GOT HER CALL RIGHT.
Not only is sexism alive and well in football, like homophobia, it is acceptable and there is no will to change it.
The fact that a number of people will now try to argue otherwise just reinforces this point, so please, let me hear why this isn’t an issue.
I’d love to hear you explain how that entire conversation isn’t indicative of the mainstream view in football. Please.
All this stems from her getting the decision right. Can you imagine what it would be like if she’d got it wrong?
And THAT is why women of the web united in their joy yesterday.
Simple really.
Shame on you Sky.
Shame on you.
UPDATE – Listen to the audio for yourself here
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